Not everyone chooses to host an engagement party, but they can serve several purposes. Here are some reasons why you may want to consider having an engagement party:

1. Sharing the news: An engagement party is a great way to formally share the exciting news of your engagement with your friends and family and to officially kick off the wedding planning process. You may even make it a surprise and not tell your guests the big news until they arrive!

2. Building relationships: A formal gathering is a perfect opportunity for each side of the family to get to know one another. They won’t have to wait until your wedding day to put faces to names, shake hands, and build a rapport.

3. Celebrating the love: It’s a time to celebrate! Hosting or attending a party highlights the love between the two of you and the start of your new life together. Everyone can meet your new fiancé and get to know them better.

4. Gathering support: An engagement party can also be a way to gather support and advice from friends and family as you begin planning your wedding. Your cousins or friends may have useful tidbits, vendor recommendations, or other advice about their own wedding planning experiences.

5. Making memories: Celebrating with your loved ones makes for a memorable event in itself and can create lasting memories for you and your guests.

While an engagement party is not required, it can be a great way to bring people together and celebrate your love and commitment. There are no rules here— just make the party feel true to your relationship and have fun!

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