What do bridesmaids do?

In the past, weddings were much more cookie cutter for family and friends. Sure the bridesmaids lent a hand to help with all the wedding details. They even helped setup appointments for manis and pedis. Today’s weddings are far from cookie cutter. Brides and grooms are personalizing their weddings in far more unique ways. With an already busy, hectic schedule, it could also mean enduring a lengthy bridesmaid to-do list.

It is best to get all the bridesmaids together with the bride to assign responsibilities. This ensures the wedding planning process and pre-wedding events go smoothly. Below are the typical responsibilities of bridesmaids.

~ Attend the engagement party — This is a great way to get formally introduced to the families.

~ Plan fun things for bridal party get-togethers — Nothing keeps moral higher than a fun atmosphere. Pick a place that reduces the stress.

~ Help plan the bridal shower — Okay, so this one is kind of a gimmie. There are many articles dedicated solely to execute an amazing shower, including lots of ideas for games and favors.

~ Take charge of the bachelorette party — What happens in Vegas, doesn’t always stay in Vegas. Just keep in mind the best interests of the bride. It is wise to incorporate her style into the party.

~ Rehearsal it up — Be ready to learn and socialize at the rehearsal dinner. This is when close families go over formalities for the ceremony traditions. It is another great time to get familiar with those you will be celebrating with.

~ Ceremony/Reception Duties — These will range from everything to anything. The new couple will be busy mingling with guests and thanking them for attending. Situations might pop up, and— if you don’t have a wedding coordinator on site— it’s the bridesmaids’ job to handle these issues quickly and efficiently. There is nothing worse than an unhappy bride.

We hope this bridesmaids to-do list helps to avoid some common problems with wedding planning. Just remember, that this is a celebration of new beginnings and long lasting friendships. Things will happen up to and the day of the wedding. Thorough planning and discussions throughout the process are beneficial for everyone!

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